Packing Dildos – Yes, I’m Happy To See You

For many men making the transition from female to male, packing (or wearing a dildo under the clothes) is one of the first changes they make to alter their gender expression. The team over at Pleasure Works has created a product that helps those making that transition by creating an authentic phallus that can be worn on the body. This isn’t a sex toy – the packing dildos from Pleasure Works are meant to be worn in your underwear to help you create the ‘penis look’ that you’re after.

Angel’s Sex Toys carries the Softskin Packers in three different skin shades – a rather light “Vanilla”, a more tanned “Caramel” and a ebony packer in “Coffee”.

Called the “Sailor” by Pleasure Works, they come in two different lengths. The Pleasure Works Sailor 1 measures 4 inches long by 1.38 inches thick, while the Pleasure Works Sailor 2 comes in slightly longer at 6 inches long, with the same 1.38 inch thickness.

For the L-Word fans, this was the style of packing dildo that Max Sweeney wore in some of his sex scenes – nothing that’s too erect and used for penetration, but there enough to know that there’s certainly something going on down there! We love the fact that it’s also waterproof, so you can slip a pair between you and your Speedos when you’re showing off your stuff at the beach!

Pleasure Works Softskin Packer – Vanilla

Pleasure Works Softskin Packer – Caramel

Pleasure Works Softskin Packer – Coffee

These non-latex packing dildos are made from lifelike feeling materials, and are easily washable with gentle soap and water. They can be worn in the majority of ‘brief’ style underwear, including jock straps, jockey shorts and even RodeoH underwear harnesses. You want to pick a pair of underwear that can hold it against your body – boxer shorts typically won’t work unless you are wearing a packing harness underneath.

Truhk Black Button Fly Boxer

RodeoH’s Red Brief Packing Underwear

RodeoH Black Red Brief Platinum Package

Angel's Sex Toys

RodeoH PKG Black Red Hot Short Review

A while ago I saw that product testers were wanted for the latest pair of RodeoHs –RodeoHs PKG– and I thought why not. These looked superb and I knew they would be a great addition to my growing RodeoH collection. The very cool part is that without looking extra closely, you wouldn’t even know that the shorts can also be used as a strap on harness. I guess someone will have to just come look extra closely.

RodeoH harness

Quick and dirty stats.

The RodeoH hot shorts were made based on customer feedback of earlier RodeoH products. They are made from 95% cotton and 5% spandex. They can be purchased in various sizes ranging from 25 to 41 inches and you’re advised to select a size smaller than what you would usually buy for appropriate use of the harness. A size guide is available on the RodeoH website. All RodeoH products come in a care bag with dog tags.


Overall feel and fit.

For me, RodeoH have changed the game when it comes to strap on harnesses. Using customer feedback, the new shorts are an even better harness in my opinion. The shorts stay tighter to your body compared with the original boxers and briefs as they have a double layer of fabric. This makes you feel more in control during use as a strap on harness. The dildo stays firmly in place thanks to the double layer of fabric and the reinforced front panel. However, I don’t think they’re quite as comfortable as the original boxers and briefs as regular underwear.

RodeoH PKG short


I can easily say that the RodeoH harnesses will be the fastest you have ever put on and put to use. A flared based dildo with a base diameter of 1.5 to 2 inches is inserted from the back of the opening in the front of the shorts. The different opening design at the front of the shorts means they can be used with a double dildo as well. As an extra added bonus, there is also a pocket for a bullet vibe right above the O ring. The shorts can also be used for packing.

Clean up and storage.

All RodeoHs are machine washable at a low temperature, hung to dry and quickly ready for more action. I would recommend washing the shorts by hand the first time they need washing as the red die may run in to the white cuffs. No need to store this harness in a toy cupboard. They can sit nicely next to your regular underwear.

RodeoH underwear harness

Value for money.

The RodeoH hot shorts retail at $59.99 in the online store which includes US domestic shipping. International shipping is also available and it’s very reasonably priced. You can buy them at I believe the RodeoH hot shorts are worth every penny. My collection will surely be expanding. You can buy the shorts in the UK from Lovehoney for £39.99.

**Review Disclaimer – I purchased the RodeoH hot shorts at a discounted rate as part of a volunteer testing group. This review is based on those tests and were not solicoted as an online review by

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Staying Safe On Lesbian Dating Sites

You’ve finally gathered up the courage to join a lesbian dating site – congratulations! A lot of ladies never even make it to this step. Now that you’ve discovered a lesbian dating site that works for you, Lesbians Unlimited wants to make sure that your experience here is as safe and secure as possible. That’s why we’ve put together some suggested safety guidelines when it comes to interacting with members of this lesbian dating site.

Lesbian Dating at Sapphic DatingSetting Up Your Account and Interacting With Other Members

The number one thing that you need to remember is that you are in control of how much information you share. We strongly suggest you remain as anonymous as possible until you are totally comfortable giving out more personal information. Please don’t share your real name, home address, place or work or any other identifying information until you have established a certain level of trust with your potential lesbian partner.

Take advantage of the options available to you at lesbian date sites like Sapphic Dating. Some have chat rooms that let you have real time conversations with other members. Others have internal mailing systems allows you to send messages to other members without giving away your email address. Many members create separate email accounts for their online dating – one that does not have their real name in it – if they choose to communicate with their potential lesbian partner offline.

Obviously, never give any financial information to anyone you meet online. This is a major red flag when it comes to fraudsters hoping to take advantage of our members. Do not wire anyone money as you will have no recourse to get the funds back to you. Do not give away your credit card or banking information.

Other red flags to keep a look out for when using online lesbian dating services are:

  • Immediately asking to contact you via outside chat or email services
  • Closing down one account and immediately opening up another one
  • Discussing how it’s ‘fate’ or ‘destiny’ that you met before you’ve got to know each other
  • Wanting to know your home address for gift deliveries
  • Claiming to be from your home country, but always travelling aborad

Meeting Offline

So you’ve got to know a special someone and you want to meet up in real life. This is an exciting time –enjoy those ‘first date butterflies’! After you’ve got to know someone on an online dating site for lesbians and want to meet offline, there are still precautions you should take to keep safe.

You want to keep this first date in public. As much as you may be tempted to return to your date’s home for a night cap, this isn’t the safest thing to do. Another tip to keeping safe after meeting online is to drive yourself to your date. Even if this means taking a taxi, it’s key that you have control over getting to and from the date. Don’t rely on them for a ride. This is doubly important if you’re travelling far and staying overnight to be near your date. Use your own hotel room – not their house – to stay in.

Be sure that there is at least one other person that knows where you are going and around how long you will be out. This is where your best friend comes in handy! Most off all – enjoy your time with your new date. Once again, congratulations for taking this first step on your online dating journey!

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