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What To Say In Your First Dating Site Message

You may not be all too surprised to hear that what you say in your first message to a potential partner on a dating sites does make a difference. One of the largest dating sites recently conducted a study with their members, analyzing their first messages sent to a new contact, and the reply rate for those message. They’ve discovered that there are a few key aspects to a first contact message that can make or break your changes for a positive reply. While this study was not done on a lesbian dating site – we bet that there will be little difference in the results in your own online dating experiences!

Lesbian Dating First Message TipsGet away from the text-speak. Please wipe the words “wat”, “luv” and “realy” from your vocabulary! The reply rate for first messages that included abbreviated forms of the English language was so low you really wonder if the time saved by not typing a few letters was really worth it. This study showed that there was between a 25% and 8% reply rate for messages that used this pseudo-vocabulary. Avoid “r”, “u”, and “ya” as well. While you may think it looks casual and cute, you may be regretting that decision when a girl you’re really excited about doesn’t return your message.

Keep away from superficial physical compliments. This online dating study also showed that when messages were sent with pickup lines including the words “beautiful”, “sexy”, “hot” and “cutie”, they had as low as a 18% change of having that message returned. Seems like superficial compliments on the first dating site message sends up some red flags. Alternatively, words like “awesome”, “cool” and “fascinating” had a much higher reply rate. The lesson to take away from this is – don’t be overly flattering to a person you’re hoping to hear back from!

Pick an out-of-the-ordinary greeting. Do you find yourself using the same “hi”, “hello” and “hey” when you’re sending your first message on a lesbian dating site? Those first few words can make or break your changes of getting a reply back. The simple phrase “how’s it going” had more than a 50% reply rate, as compared with “hi” and it’s 24%. Even the somewhat short and sweet “yo” did much better than something like “holla”. Be creative with that opening phrase and you might see a few more lesbian dating replies in your inbox!

First Message On A Dating Site TipsBe specific in your interests. Want to increase your changes of getting your first dating site message replied to? Share a bit about yourself, but be specific! Words like “tattoos”, “vegetarian” and “band” had a significantly higher reply rate than those who didn’t go into any specifics about their interest. Even words like “grad school”, “video games” and “favorite movies” made a big difference. So if you’re looking for a reply from your potential lesbian love, give her something to think about!

Lay off the chat about religion – in general. As strange as it may seem, there’s a lower reply rate for ladies who mentioned “God” in their first message when compared to those who mentioned specific religious terms such as “jewish”, “Allah” and “Jesus”. If you’re treading on the ‘first date faux pa’ chat of politics and religion, it may be better to be as specific as possible. The one word that had more than a 40% reply rate when it came to religious talk? “Atheist”.

Are you ready to try out your new found skills? Lesbians Unlimited has partnered up with Sapphic Dating to bring lesbians looking for love online together. It’s free to join and set up your profile. In a few minutes you can be contacting ladies from around the world who are interested in getting to know another woman. Now that you’ve got your tips for a prefect first message on a dating site, put it to good use!

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Introducing The GenderQueer Shop

The GenderQueer ShopOur little family of lesbian friendly sites is starting to grow, and we would like to introduce you to our newest sister site, The GenderQueer Shop. Born from our love of gender fluidity but seeing the struggle that some have finding sex toys and genderwear that fits their needs, The GenderQueer Shop is designed to help you connect with the right products to allow you to be who you really are.

One of the main focuses of The GenderQueer Shop is faux body parts for those who wish to add to their existing anatomy. For the FTM lesbians out there, a line of packing dildos, shapewear, and other items to help you bring out that masculine side can be found. We also provide products for those MTF lovers wishing to explore their feminine side, with false breasts and clothing that will help you accentuate those curves. No matter how you view your gender – or none at all – The GenderQueer Shop is there to help you explore your other sides.

In addition to the transwear and other gender related products, The GenderQueer Shop also carries the same generalist sex toys that you find on most mainstream sites. You’ll find popular brands like RodeoH, Tantus and Stockroom, as well as more mass marketed brands like Pipedreams, KinkLab and Fetish Fantasy. Our items are discounted over their usual retail price. In addition, Lesbians Unlimited readers have access to an exclusive coupon code – LULOVESGQ15 – to save 15% off your order. This code can be used on everything online (excluding the gift cards) and is valid on top of the already reduced prices.

If you’re not quite sure what to get or have some questions, getting in touch with the ladies who run The GenderQueer Shop is very easy. You can send then an email which will be replied to within 48 hours, or you can drop them a tweet at @GenderQueerShop. (If it’s a private matter, they’ll DM you with replies!) We hope that you find what you’re looking for over at The GenderQueer Shop!

Anyone in the UK (and international) sex bloggersphere will more than likely heard of Sh! Women’s Store. In the process of signing up for their affiliate program for a few of the websites I run, I got to chatting with the wickedly funny staff there, and was offered a chance to test a toy for them. Since I picked out the last set of dildos we got, I left the task of going through Sh’s silicone dildo line to Mrs. Almost immediately she came back with the Wirly Girly 2 Slim Vibrating Dildo. A few weeks later while at the Sh! Horxton store for an event, I picked up this little delight and brought it home to try out on Valentine’s Day.

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The Quick and Dirty Stats: The Wirly Girly 2 Slim Vibrating Dildo is made from 100% silicone, and is latex and phthalate free. It’s 5.25 inches long with almost all of that insertable. It has a flared heart-shaped base. The toy comes with a small bullet vibrator that can be inserted into a recess at the base of the dildo (but can be used without the vibe as well). The vibe is powered by 3 LL44 batteries which are included with the toy. As with any silicone toys, water based lubricant should be used, and Sh! includes a small packet along with the dildo. It comes wrapped in a somewhat stiff plastic wrap that’s easily removed with a pair of scissors (or teeth if you’re in the heat of the moment).

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